Most people – no matter how smart, pretty, rich, or successful they are – experience moments of self-doubt. This occasional lack of confidence is perfectly natural. However, if left unchecked, it can sometimes prevent us from chasing after our dreams or saying yes to valuable opportunities. In the worst cases, it can feel utterly debilitating.
Luckily, there are plenty of methods you can use that will help you to believe in yourself a little more and ultimately boost your confidence. Read on for some top advice, and get ready to uncover a whole new you!
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Discover the root cause of your low confidence
The first step to take is to try and understand the underlying reasons why you lack confidence. Perhaps you’ve been put down by family members or teachers in the past or had friends or partners who eroded your self-esteem. Are there certain areas of your life where you feel less confident than others, such as work, school, or relationships? What goals are you holding yourself back from attempting to achieve due to a fear of failure? This self-discovery can be a little uncomfortable at times. However, the knowledge you uncover will be well worth the effort.
Take care of your physical and mental health
Looking and feeling good is a huge part of confidence, so it’s vital not to neglect your health. Otherwise, you risk becoming trapped in a negative spiral. You want to try and do exercise regularly, eat a balanced diet rich in vitamins and minerals, and drink six to eight glasses of water a day to stay hydrated. For an extra boost in confidence, treat yourself to a beautifying treatment at Dermani Medspa and see what a difference it makes. Even changing the way that you dress or do your hair can transform how you feel about yourself.
Combat ‘comparisonitis’
One of the most common causes of insecurity is comparing ourselves to other people. Unfortunately, in today’s world of celebrities, social media, and selfies, such comparison is tricky to avoid. Do your best not to think about how much money other people are making, how many vacations they’re taking, how beautiful they are, or how many followers they have on Instagram. The only person you should be comparing yourself to is you. Think about how far you’ve come in the past few years, what you’ve achieved, and how you can continue to improve in the future.
Surround yourself with positive vibes
Nothing will sap your confidence faster than negativity. This could be coming from your own internal voice or the people around you, but either way, you don’t want to let it drag you down. Cut out toxic people from your life, and instead aim to surround yourself with positive people who lift your spirits, encourage you to achieve your dreams, and generally make you feel good about yourself. Similarly, do your best to quiet your inner critic and be kind to yourself. One helpful tip is to try talking to yourself in the way that you would talk to your best friend – you’ll soon find the words you use and the tone you take becoming more positive!
